What are the skills the best fundraisers have?
My recent posts about advice visits and asking donors their impressions are all about listening.
"Listen your way to the gift."
Did you know that listening is actually a gift to the other person?
And who really listens any more?
I'm about to reveal my Golden Formula for opening a donor's heart to my cause.
I also use this to find out what a donor is thinking about my presentation.
I use these 4 words all the time - and I get terrific benefits and feedback! I can't tell you how valuable they have been to me.
It's a very simple, single question. And it is guaranteed to evoke a response from your donor that tells you where he stands.
But more importantly, it generates the donor's own thinking about your issue.
It encourages him to ponder your presentation, to digest your material, to think about it, to react to it. It encourages him to embrace what you have just said.
Here is my key to success.
I ask this Golden Question:
"What are your impressions? . . . .
And then I shut up and listen carefully.
This question encourages the donor to think more deeply about what you've presented. She is not going to get hot and bothered about your cause just by listening to YOU do all the talking.
I wrote about Advice Visits in my newsletter this week. (if you are not a subscriber, you can sign up here.)
I have used Advice Visits time and time again. They are based on the old adage:
"If you want money, ask for advice.
If you want advice, ask for money."
Rule One: Make Sure You Are Interesting, Not Boring
As you tell your person about your cause and seek his advice, you should be watching carefully for his reaction.
If your prospect seems to not be very interested in your cause, then you should not drag on.. If you are perceived as boring or droning on and on, you will never be welcomed back!
The kiss of death for any fundraiser is to be boring. You are the one listening, not talking!