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5 Insanely Successful Ideas for Getting in the Door to See Your Prospect

Ok, you’re about to pick up the phone to try to schedule a meeting with a donor prospect.

Making that phone call can be the moment of truth!

Yikes. This can be the moment of truth.

It can be scary.

It’s also a moment when fundraisers chicken out.

I remember when I was a staff fundraiser, that I waited for my “good days” when my energy was up to make those phone calls.

Here are 5 insanely successful ideas to help you make that phone call and get that appointment.

But first, remember why you are phoning for a visit:

  • To cultivate the donor’s interest in your organization.
  • To determine IF the donor HAS interest in your organization.
  • To determine IF the donor even has CAPACITY to make a significant gift.
  • To cultivate future gifts.
  • To find out exactly WHAT the donor is interested in and WHY the donor is interested in your cause.

I call all this stuff “reconnaissance.”

It’s market research.

It’s scouting out ahead.

It’s gathering KEY DATA that can lead to a major gift.

Gotta make those reconnaissance visits!

Here are ways to get in the door to find out that key info:

1. Thank you visit.

This is by far the easiest call to make.

And how wonderful for the donor – she knows that you are not going to be asking for money.

The stakes are low.

And the potential for each party to enjoy herself is high.

Here’s what you say over the phone:

“It’s my job to know our donors, and I’d love to hear about your experience and why you gave.”

What donor would not be happy to have that visit?

“They come every year, just to give me a progress report!”

Here’s a happy true story:

I was visiting with the VP who headed up Progress Energy’s corporate foundation here in Raleigh, NC.

I was asking her about the organizations who called on her and what her experience was like.

She complained that the only time she ever saw many people is when they came to ask.

Then she got this happy, foggy look on her face, leaned back in her chair and said,

“But those Tammy Lynn people. They come every year, just to update me and give me a progress report.”

And she smiled big and wide.

Thank you visits can take you very, very far!

If you want money, ask for advice. If you want advice, ask for money!

2.  Advice visit.

Advice visits are my absolute favorite kind of visit.

They are low pressure, very enjoyable, and usually yield TONS of info.

I’ve raised LOTS OF MONEY in my day by asking for advice.

Here’s what you say when you pick up the phone:

“We are working on a new, big project. I’d love to see what you think of it.”

Or

“I have something up my sleeve, can I come by and pick your brain?”

Or:

“We are thinking of xxxx new project. I’d love to get your impressions of this plan.”

You have to remember that big donors are willing to see you IF they know they get to do the talking. Then they know it will not be a boring visit!

I’ve written a lot about advice visits: They can get you into any door in town.

AND board members love advice visits – they are perfect for them!

3. “Get to know you” visit.

This is for a cool, or even cold call.

My friend, Eli Jordfald, Senior Major Gifts Director at the Lineberger Cancer Center at UNC-Chapel Hill, uses these next two strategies often.

Smile into the phone and it shows in your voice!

This is a “tell me about your personal experience” visit.

Here’s what you say,

“I understand you recently (attended a performance, visited our hospital, participated in a walk, helped in a project, were served by our organization – whatever fits here). . . . I’d love to hear about your personal experience.”

Just introduce yourself.  Be warm and conversational.

And see if you can develop a conversation.

Use the conversation to determine the level of the prospect’s interest. IF they show some interest, ask if you can visit personally.

But don’t let the prospect think you are scheduling a visit to their city just to see them!

Say,

“I’m planning to be in Los Angeles next month, and I’d love to come by and say hello.”

Don’t say, “You are such a huge prospect that I am flying across the country just to come see you!” :)

4. “Would you be interested in learning more?”

This, too, is for a cool call, with someone you don’t know well.

You may know that they are wealthy and generous, but you don’t know how interested they are.

You are calling someone who has recently visited or participated in your organization’s work.

Use this along with the “Get to Know You” visit idea.

This question is nice because it’s all about the donor, and the donor’s wishes.

That phone call is becoming easier and easier!

5. “I have an idea I’d like to run by you.”

Use this when you already have a relationship with the prospect, but they are hard to reach.

One of my favorite clients has a couple of very key prospects who are world travelers, big business people, and very difficult to get in front of.

Yesterday, I was helping develop some strategies to stay in front of these very important prospects.

I told my client to be “charming and vague” on the phone.

Say,

“I have an idea I want to run by you.”

This sounds intriguing. It feels interesting. And it seems important.

Probably the most important thing is for her to be charming.

You want the prospect to feel like visiting with you is fun. That way he’ll make the time!

Lighten up!

I always tell my clients, “You gotta lighten up!”

Remember, when in doubt, throw a party.

If you make it fun, EVERYONE wants to be on your bandwagon.

BOTTOM LINE:

There are lots of ways to make that appointment.

You gotta keep trying. And you gotta be cheerful.

Who can refuse you then?

Was this helpful? Leave me a comment and let me know!

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  • Jamison_n

    Thanks for the tips! Making the donor/prospect feel important goes a long way!

  • Ilene Lieberman

    I LOVE your articles!  In order to stay in this business one MUST be upbeat – and you are that and more!  This “pep talk” was especially helpful – sometimes we just need a cheerleader!  Thanks for using exclamation points!!!!!

  • Heidi

    I always learn at last one or two valuable lessons from anytyhing you send me – this time, though you really hit the nail on the head! Thanks for the wealth of “conversation openers.”   

  • Barbara

    Another winner Gail (I hope it is ok to call you Gail, reading your posts it just seems right!).  As we have been working to get our Board members comfortable with donor solicitation, it seems to me that getting them involved in the “thank you calls” is a good way to begin.  I have started doing that with some of our Board members, but I think giving them this article might help them a lot.  Thank you!

  • Jan

    Love your ideas and positive attitude. Thank you!

    And… will you please join me in asking ALL nonprofit professionals to find a more honorable phrase than, “pick your brain?”

    It sounds painful, and sends a painful message. It reminds me of tooth extraction.

    I bet we can come up with some fabulous, new phrases and banish that dental pick from our brains forever.

  • Debbie

    Great advice and great reminders. Thanks, Gail! I especially love hearing them in your southern accent!

  • Anonymous

    Debbie, thanks!  The southern accent just won’t go away! : )

  • Anonymous

    Hi Jan, you know, “pick your brain” has worked well for me for years. But it doesn’t feel painful or awkward to me (never thought of it!). 

    Let’s come up with some other easy “openers” to use!

  • Anonymous

    Barbara, certainly call me Gail! And I agree, starting board members off with thank you calls and visits is a real winner!

  • Anonymous

    Heidi, this is a tough moment for any fundraiser. Having some openers up your sleeve is always helpful! 

  • Anonymous

    Well I do have a habit about those exclamation points. I try to limit them but they just creep in all the time! : )

  • Lexmz31

    Thanks for some good ideas. I feel more comfortable inviting donors out to lunch after reading your suggestions!  Your comments make the whole process less intimidating!